Sunday, February 21, 2010

Jacob's 1st birthday party


Jacob's 1st birthday party
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Jacob and friends had a blast today - just as soon as my attention wavered for 1 second, I took my hand off the rack and the whole cake ended up on the floor! I guess it's not a real party unless something gets spilled.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

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Sunday, February 14, 2010

Little Boy


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Amazing - when did my baby turn into a little boy? I'm loving his hair - for a while, it was reminding me of Dwight (Rainn Wilson) from the US version of The Office - now it's too long, so it's more in the British pop star vein. :)

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Saturday, February 06, 2010

Lunch with the grandparents


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Jacob got a much-needed dose of Vitamin D yesterday in the city. There was plenty of window shopping on Chestnut Street to keep everyone happy, and good eats at Judy's Cafe.

Monday, February 01, 2010

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Neighborhood pizza place


Neighborhood pizza place
Originally uploaded by js_hale
Lococo's Pizza is one of the things that we love about our neighborhood. Jacob can be the kid that he is and no one blinks - and the pizza ROCKS. I tried mightily to limit myself to 2 pieces, but couldn't. We get the same thing every time - a pie called the "Employee Special," which is hamburger, artichoke and green onion. I justified by 3rd piece pretty easily - #1, I went on a jog before dinner - #2, I'm still abiding by my New Year's resolution not to have sweets after 7pm. I kid you not, I have lost about 5lbs. doing that and nothing else!

Me and the Kid

Jacob is almost 1 year old, I can't believe it.
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Saturday, January 23, 2010

He likes lemon!


He likes lemon!
Originally uploaded by js_hale
Went to Sam's for brunch today with Uncle Bjorn and the Kid. It was too cold to sit outside today so we enjoyed our fried calamari without the seagulls of unusual size peering over our plates ("Mine! Mine!). Bjorn is a friend of Peter's from college, and he's launching an exciting new company that focuses on birds and bird watching. There will be more info available when he's ready to launch.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Tuesday, January 19, 2010

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Sunday, January 17, 2010

Tahoe traffic


Tahoe traffic
Originally uploaded by js_hale
glad we are not heading home. we already jackknifed once and almost broadsided another time. crazy conditions up here! fortunately baby is sleeping soundly.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Chip off the old block


People frequently say that J. is the spitting image of Peter, but I would like to point out the resemblance to me at 12 months!
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where's Jacob?


where's Jacob?
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Thursday, January 14, 2010

Loved this shirt - it's hanging in the window of a kids' store in SF. I am so coming back.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Wounded Daddy



Peter took a spill on his bike yesterday. Considering it's been 5 years since he last fell off his (mountain) bike, it's a good record. He's feeling better today but the road rash is pretty painful. His motto is, "if you ain't bleedin', you ain't bikin."

Sunday, January 03, 2010

Monday, December 28, 2009

Waving!


Waving!
Originally uploaded by js_hale
He just started this about 2 days ago.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

Progress?


Progress?
Originally uploaded by js_hale
Jacob used his spoon to scoop his oatmeal, then decided it wasn't efficient enough.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Sunday, December 20, 2009

mmm...yummy.


mmm...yummy.
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Thursday, December 17, 2009

swings


swings
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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

discovery museum


discovery museum
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Sunday, December 13, 2009

立ってる!


Standing!
Originally uploaded by js_hale
Jacob took his first unassisted step today! He has been doing the wobbly standing thing for a while, but the frequency and length of time have increased. While he was standing today, I had time to go find my phone, turn it on and switch it to video mode. Wouldn't you know that he fell almost right after I started filming. So after an eventful day of climbing all over Daddy, walking, falling, sitting, standing and wrestling with the dog, our little cherub went to sleep at 4-something in the afternoon for what I thought was a nap. He woke up 20 minutes later but then went back to sleep. It's 7:30pm now, so he's way out of normal napping territory. My prediction is that he'll be up and raring to go at 3:30AM. Give me strength . . .

Wednesday, December 09, 2009

Monday, December 07, 2009

God's country


God's country
Originally uploaded by js_hale
Snow covered hills in the background. It didn't above 48 degrees today - COLD for these parts!
The patches of sun warmed us up on our morning walk.

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Jacob's 1st tree

Jacob was in the midst of a marathon nap when we picked it out. Today was cold and overcast all day - perfect weather for sipping hot coffee while tooling around the farmers market, which is what we did before coming across the street to get our tree. I guess the weather got me in the mood for soup, so when we got home, I took the array of edible squash that had been our dining room centerpiece since late October and turned it into soup! I needed to make room for Christmas decorations anyway. :P And no, the pumpkins weren't old and wrinkly yet. OK, only one was. Seriously though, it felt good to actually make use of something that would ordinarily get tossed once the season is over - like a Christmas tree, for example! Yes, I have very mixed feelings about our beautiful tree. I love the look, feel and the SMELL of a real tree, but it kills me to simply dump it after New Years. My in-laws have a good-looking plastic one, which got me thinking seriously about getting one for us. I have gotten a plastic wreath that looks very nice. I'm hoping that this and the centerpiece-tuned-delicious squash soup count for something. If anyone has a thought on how to re-purpose an old Christmas tree, let me know!


Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Jacob's first fire!


And a yummy spatula to go with it!

heroic bedhead


heroic bedhead
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Friday, November 27, 2009

swinging with daddy


swinging with daddy
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We were in FL for Thanksgiving weekend - this was taken at the playground at Anastasia Island State Park. We went for a walk on the beach, Jacob slept, then woke up when Daddy wanted to swing on the swings.

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Turkey Day


Turkey Day
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Went to up the Ritz in Amelia Island - a tradition that's been going strong for 18 years. Jacob was in good company with 4 other kids in our group - they all wanted to help him walk around. The best part of having Thanksgiving in a hotel is that we actually have the meal 2 times in a row - Mom always wants to cook, so she cooks on Friday and we stuff ourselves silly all over again - 2 days in a row. Gluttonous? Yeah, maybe a little.

Thursday, November 19, 2009

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Monday, November 16, 2009

duck pj's


duck pj's
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Friday, November 13, 2009

Sand box


Sand box
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Jacob was not a huge fan...

Saturday, November 07, 2009

belly dance


belly dance
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Friday, November 06, 2009

Thursday, November 05, 2009

New toy


New toy
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Big boy loves his new musical table!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

halloween


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Friday, October 30, 2009

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

grandma


grandma
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Tuesday, October 27, 2009

puffs


puffs
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feeding himself bow

"Sleep training" - 5 days in

Since Jacob has started crawling, we have gotten to the point where it makes more sense to train him to sleep in his crib. Up until now, I wanted to bed-share for years. I saw how it worked so well for my friends in Japan. I thought that the sense of security that children must feel in sleeping next to their parents every night could only help his development. Above all, I wanted a happy, well-adjusted kid. I talked with a good friend whose opinion I respect very much - she'd read somewhere about a theory: basically, children are brought up strictly in the west (i.e., forced to sleep in a crib) from a very early stage, therefore they must be educated even more strictly as they get older. And since they couldn't enjoy constant closeness with their caregiver/mother early on, they need someone who welcomes their need for acknowledgment later in life, both mentally and physically. To paraphrase - kids who aren't nurtured early on are left wanting later in life.

I agree with the basic premise for sure. Recently, though, I've changed my mind about how this theory applies to my kid sleeping in a crib. First of all, every kid is different. Second, I believe that the bed-sharing for the first 8 months of his life (along with breast feeding, lots of affection, etc.) established a strong foundation of security and self-worth. Kid woke up - more later!!

(1:11PM) Jacob has been "down for a nap" since 12:30pm. Translation: he's been screaming his head off for nearly 45 minutes. The guidelines say to end the nap after 1 hour and try again in 1-2 hours. Naps are the hardest to change. Right now, I'm on the second 15-minute interval, and I seriously doubt that he'll go down before it's over. This is the really hard part, making yourself stay put during those intervals while listening to your child scream. But I have been assured that I am not doing anything harmful, and he knows that we love him, it's just hard getting used to a new routine. As long as Peter and/or I check in at 5-10-15 minute intervals to reassure him that we're here, he is not traumatized or feel abandoned.

The upside to this whole situation is that he's sleeping better at night. Last night, he went down easily at 8:30PM - I heard him doing his half-asleep fussing at 6:00AM, but he went back to sleep, and woke peacefully at 8:15! Never thought it would make that much of a difference so quickly, but it has. So we'll see how it goes from here. He's still crying, so I need to go get him now.

Thursday, October 22, 2009

Jacob & Rolly

Went to the park yesterday evening & met a friend of ours from the mother's group. They were able to share a swing, but given how fast they're growing, this won't last for long!
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Tuesday, October 20, 2009

messy eats


messy eats
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Monday, October 19, 2009

making the most of a rainy Monday

Peter's new pulley system for the car storage box!

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Pumpkin Patch


Pumpkin Patch
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Went to Nicasio and met the babies & moms from my Tuesday group. Ate a (wild boar!) sandwich - Peter had an elk sandwich - both were excellent. Jacob napped coming & going. Yay!

Saturday, October 10, 2009

New vest


New vest
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Knitted by Jacob's honorary grandma in Japan! It came in the mail with green tea-covered walnuts, sooooo yummy.

Friday, October 09, 2009

officially crawling!!!


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Jacob's first air show


Jacob's first air show
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Sunday, October 04, 2009

it's in!


it's in!
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first tooth came through today!

Friday, October 02, 2009

Still (almost) crawling


still (almost) crawling
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Sure, he's not entirely mobile yet, but he sure talks up a storm.

Thursday, October 01, 2009

Monday, September 28, 2009

Brookings OR


Brookings OR
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Our little piece of heaven, complete with a hot tub! Can't wait to play on the beach tomorrow w/ the dog. Now where did I put that ice-cold beer...

on the road


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driving down the Oregon coast today . we stopped for lunch in old town Florence. The smell of standing salt water & gasoline reminds me of my childhood, lots of weekends going fishing with my dad.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

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